Though you can't see or touch me, I'll be near. And if you listen with your heart, you'll
hear
All of my love around you, soft and clear.
And then, when you must come this way alone
I will greet you with a smile and say welcome
Home
lOVE YOU
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BABYBOY
YOUR MEMORY LIVES ON IN YOUR FAMILY
YOUR MOM I LOVE YOU SON
Happy Birthday My Angel..."BIRD" its is so hard sometimes for your Momie but I'am still trying as hard as I can to live with out you God is standing by myside
We love and miss you "BIRD" your plate has been at the table every holiday and every Dinner noone else knows this, but you and your MOM-Your memory will continue to live on as long as I have breath in my body my handsome son oh how I miss your smiles, and your voice and most of all your big hugs..Sending lots of angel hugs...Your Family......11/06/2011
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You were my Angel from God~~Love and Miss you Angel~~
Happy Angel Birthday My Angel Another Hard Day For Me. We Love And Miss You
Words can never do the job on saying how I feel since the day you left us BIRD, but I try everyday I come to your site to say what it is that your Mom is going through now and how far I've come. God is walking with me daily I know because of some of the situations I've been in only God could brought me though and he has.
BIRD'S BIRTH FATHER WHO HAS ALSO PASSED ON
You were so handsome Bird, your Momie misses you so much. I miss you calling and asking me certain things about life, and telling me how much you loved me I missed this so much. I misss telling you how much I love you. I will never be able to call any child my grandchild, because I will never have any this hurts me so much not to have any children of yours to call my grands. I will miss not be able to go to your wedding and look at your face as you wait for you stand waiting for your Bride to be. Oh I have to stop now this makes me so sad. I love you Son.
Have you ever met a person that fulfilled you deep inside? Someone who has never failed you and stands, no matter, by your side. Someone who gives from their heart and brings sunshine all around, Always smiling and laughing, never seeming down. well that was and will always be my darling son who now watches over me from heaven above
My Angel You Are So Loved & Missed By Your Entire Family Until We Meet In God's Parish We Will Continue To Treasure Your Memories
FLY FREE MY SON MY ANGEL Oh Yes, But Sometimes The Memories Are So Hard At Times For Me key Chain & Ribbon Forever In Our Hearts We Love & Miss You Angel A Birthday Will Never Be The Same For Me My Angel. We Shared Our Birthdays Together From The Day You Were Born 2/10/1972 Until You Left Me 2/19/2005
This Is A Poem You Gave Me Bird Oh I Miss The Poems So Much I Don't Have Anyone To Give Me Poems Now, But If I Did It Wouldn't Be The Same Because They Wouldn't Come Form You. Those we hold most dear never truly leave us ... they live on in the kindnesses they showed, the comfort they shared and the love they brought into our lives. Death is nothing at all. I have only slipped away into the next room. Whatever we were to each other, that we are still. Call me by my old familiar name; speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Laugh as we always laughed at room at the little jokes we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without effort. Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was; there is absolutely unbroken continuity. Why should I be out of your mind because I am out of your sight? I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near just around the corner. All is well. Nothing is lost. One brief moment and all will be as it was before - only better, infinitely happier and forever - We will all be one together with Christ This Is A Tee Shirt That Some Of Your Friends Had Made. I Still Don't Have One Yet Because I Can't Stand Looking At Your Pretty Smile Like This Yet , I feel with all my heart that God has a plan for me. I dream a lot Bird my dreams I don't understand but I know one day it will all come , and I will say oh thats what God meant. I will be praying on Monday the 19th all day because this is where my strength comes from. I love you swweetie you have a smile that no one can top.MOM
We Love & Miss You Sweetie
This memorial site was created in memory of our loved one, Anthony Tyrone Stancil-White was born on February 10, 1972. Anthony was a 1990 graduate of J.H. Rose High School. He had lived in the Pitt County area just about all of his life. He had lived in Va. Beach for a short time. That was were he was returning from at the time of his death. Anthony was only passing thru just until God got his resting place ready, as we all have to do. Anthony met his death on February the 19th , 2005 in a car accident to a drunk driver on his way back from Va, with a driver going to fast the State Trooper said he was going about 70 to 120 miles per hr. Va Beach was the place he love so much. Anthony was just about home not even 15 minutes away from home. Anthony you will be truely missed. I have to cross the road he was killed on everyday because this was an interstate road and I have to cross it to go anywhere like going to the post office or the store. Anthony loved to do so many things reading was one of his favorite things of all. He would read the bible constantly, he once told me he had read the bible more than once. We would sit and read sometimes and he would see me trying to look up something and he would go straight to it, he has been that way since he was a little boy. He would write peoms for me if he gave me a card it would be in a poem. I miss this so much I will never get a poem that way again. We will see you again my little boy, I Ioved you so much, but God loved you best.
Love Mom & Dad You Were The Best Son Anyone Could have Ever Had. We Love & Miss You Baby Boy. April 21, 2006 We couldn't have asked God for anything more, he gave us the perfect Son, you were the world to us. Your Dad was just saying today that he lost a good and only friend he had in the world. You were always there to listen to him. He said he miss you coming into the back yard to tap him on his shoulder and supprise him while he was working in the yard. This was so meaningful to him. You would ask him are you ok old man. You would come inside to pick at me, mostly pinch me under my arm to say Ma whats that. You were always telling me to lose a little weight. I use to tell you that you would find someone larger than me and I wolud remind you of this. You would just smile. I miss so much about you BIRD. Things will never be the same around here with out you. Your Auntie Brenda was here yesterday and she said it is so hard for her. You were at her home everyone week, sometimes 3 times a week or more. You had something about you that everyone loved. You were so loving and warm to everyone. We will carry your memory on forever you will never be forgotten NEVER!! BABY!! HUGS FROM ALL YOUR FAMILY.
Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free I'm following the path God laid for me I took His hand when I heard Him call I turned my back and left it all.
I could not stay another day, to laugh, to love, to work or play. Tasks undone must stay that way I've found that peace at the close of the day.
If parting has left a void, then fill it with remembered joy. A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss, Ah, yes, these things I too will miss.
Be not burdened with times of sorrow I wish for you the sunshine of tomorrow. My life's been full, I savored much Good friends, good times, a loved one's touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all to brief, Don't lengthen it now with undue grief. Lift up your hearts and share with me, God wants me now, He set me free.
To everything there is a season, A time for every purpose unto heaven.~
Thanks Lorie for all the beautiful designs on our son's site
flames will forever shine in the many hearts and lives you have touched! Those we Love remain with us, for Love itself lives on. Cherished memories never fade, because one loved is gone. Those we Love can never be, more than a thought apart, for as long as there’s a memory, they live on in our heart... This smile is imbeded in our heads forever, what are we to do without you here with us BIRD, our lives has taken a 90 degree turn. The world seems so empty all of a sudden. Everyday I think of your voice saying hey Ma what ya doing; I'm coming over to see you are you going anywhere. I miss you calling saying you love me, I miss you asking me what did you cook today. Oh God if only you were back here with me my world would be so different. I know all these things sound so odd to everyone else that has no idea what it is to lose a child, but to all my friends who have lost their babies they know what I'm talking about.
Our world has changed for ever, our babies are not here with us. The days are so lonely and sad. I look at boys your age and sometimes I see you in them, and this makes me sad I know I shouldn't feel this way all the time, but I do. It is so easy for people in general to tell me to move on. How do they know I'm not trying to move on. I don't want to feel this pain all the time. Some people act like you can turn the way you feel on and off it is not possible. You have to work on grief pain this is the hardest pain anyone person can handle. We just have to pray and take one day at a time. Your with God and the angels now and I know in my heart you wouldn't want to be back here in this world with your family and I'm selfish to want you back, but I do.
We will always love and miss you for the rest of our lives. Sleep on BABY TAKE YOUR REST UNTIL WE SEE YOU AGAIN>>>> WE LOVE YOU. MOM & DAD, and the rest of your FAMILY~~~~~~~. Hey baby I don't have my friend anymore. but I know you watch over your momie and you answer me when I talk to you I just don't here your beautiful voice anymore but I know it is there. I know your beautiful smile is also there.
God gave me the most prcious gift any one could ever have gotten when he gave me you. I treasured our time together. I did not know our time would not last until I had to leave you. It was the other way around you had to leave me.A mother is not suppose to bury her child this should not have happened. I try not to wonder why you had to leave me, but it does not stop my heart from hurting so much. I will just go on in life and just keep your memory alive. In the future I would like to talk to the young people about driving drunk. That is truely not the way to go, we see from our Son not being here with us. I would hope to get the message accross to as many young people as possible. Maybe speak at schools or some other functions, maybe I could help save one life this would mean so much to me. I love you my Friend, My Son, My First Born and Only Child. The days will be lonely and sad without your precious face here to face them with me, but I will get through by the help of the Lord, family & friends. With Love Always Your Momie Bird and his Mom January 1992, oh what a Son he was to me. I couldn't have asked for a more better Son. Happy Memorial Day My Son this is Your Favorite Holiday and we will try to be happy in your honor ok. LOTS OF ANGEL HUGS AND KISSES!!!! MOM, DAD, GRANDMA,AUNT JEAN, UNCLE DAVID,AUNT VERA, AUNT BRENDA & ALL YOUR COUSIN & THE REST OF YOUR RELATIVES AND FRIENDS. Have you ever watched a sunset across the ocean shore, And been filled with love and peace, never needing more? Have you ever listened to the wind flowing restlessy through the night? And heard the angel's whispers helping you when you've lost sight I WILL ALWAYS BE WITH YOUS MY FAMILY AND I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOUS If tears could build a stairway And memories were a lane, I would walk right up to heaven To bring you home again. No farewell words were spoken. No time to say good-bye. You were gone before we knew it, And only God knows why. My heart still aches in sadness And secret tears still flow. What it meant to lose you, No one will ever know.
HAPPY ANGEL ANNIVERSARY MY SON...LOVE YOU / MOM &. DAD
Happy Birthday BABY bOY / Mom &. Family
Happy Birthday my Angel missing your smile and kisses everyday...lOVE YOUR MOMIE AND FAMILY
I Know You Are With Me I Feel You All The Time / Mom
I do beleive it when people say that the angels are wtching over us I feel my son all the time especially when things are not going so good in my life. I feel you constantly at work "Bird" I turn and ther is no one there I know it i...
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Your birthday and Mine will never be the same / MOM
We shared and celebrated our birthdays together for 33 years Lord I miss that so much BIRD....
When I see butterflys I think of You "BIRD" / Mom
YOU WOULD NEVER HARM ANY CREATURE YOU WOULD SAY THEY WANT TO LIVE JUST LIKE US MOM, NO MATTER WHAT THE CREATURE WAS, I MISS OUR TALKS SO MUCH. YOU HAD SO MUCH KNOWLEDGE OF THINGS GOING AROUND US IN THIS WORLD I US TO SAY TO OTHERS BIRD IS SO ...
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Endings & Beginnings Saying Goodbye To Soon"" Do not stand at my grave and weep I am not there, I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow I am the diamond glint on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain I am the gentle autumn rain. When you wake in the morning hush I am the swift uplifting rush Of quiet birds in circling flight I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry I am not there, I did not die.
Early Years Then Later Years
Anthony Tyrone know as "Bird" was born on a Thursday morning at 7:18 am 1972 to Barbara Stancil & Wilbert Wilkes whom is now also deceased. She later met a wonderful man who truely became Bird's father when Bird was only 21/2 years old and He adopted Him as His blood Son. He couldn't have loved Him more and the same was for Bird.
Bird was truely a talented young man at an early age He began to read a lot, his favorite books were anything sounds funny, but this was the truth He would read anything. I use to have to tell Him to turn out off the lights and go to sleep, He never wanted to stop what He was reading to go to sleep. I would often catch Him reading under the covers with a flash light. It paid off anything you wanted t know Bird knew it or if He didn't want to get involve He didn't know it. I thought that was very smart of him. He could out read me anytime. we use to read books and He would always be ahead of me, because He could read faster than Me. He use to call it speed reading, I would laugh at Him evrytime He would say this. When He was about 5 or so he began to start drawing picutures and at first I never noticed it one day He came to me and said Momie look you never look at my drawings and I looked and oh what a talent My Son had and I never noticed. I said to Him keep drawing Baby and one day you will become famous we laughed. Oh He was so sweet then and was until the day he left me.
We took some of His work to the local news paper and they were not interested and I just gave up, but He never stopped drawing. Bird I ask you now to forgive your Momie I wished I had handled it differently. You wanted to go to Art Schol and I never took you seriously, because I didn't think you really wanted to persue that. I've had so much time to think about the things you use to do and now I cry so much over the what if`s. Only if I could go back to when you were born I would do things a little different in our lives, I would change anything about you I loved everything about my son God gave me a special gift when he gave you to me. I know why we had the talk you and I had now god was preparing me to ask those questions you had asked me and the ones I asked you, we had the time to talk about some important things I will treasure our time that God alowed us forever we will meet again my Son.
When you started School you were so smart, your teachers were so fascinated about the way you could learn so fast. You use to do your work and then then sit there and destract all the other kids and they wouldn't want to do there work because they were too busy watching you. You would read the books they gave you to read so fast and then tell what it was you had read and they couldn't beleive it until you did it.
Your last years of school you were something else. You played School bus with the first car Dad bought you, because you had nothing to keep you busy in school. The teachers couldn't give you enogh work that would keep you focused on your class, so you would either not come to school or leave early. Bird I will never forget all the wonderful Years I had with you my angel it wasn't meant for you to stay here with us long but I wished I could have said goodbye my sweet angel it wasn't in the cards. You are with God, your birth father, your Grandad who was my father, your Uncles, My Brothers, your greatgrandmother who is my grandmother & greatgrandad and many more who loved you so much. we will be together again very soon. I love You Angel, We all do. Your Family
I Planted This Rose Today For You "BIRD" Momie loves you so very much the 19th will never leave me.
THIS IS WHAT "BIRD" WOULD SAY TO ALL OF US....
It does not count. I have only slipped away into the next room. Nothing has happened. Everything remains as it was. I'am I, and you are you, and the old life we lived so fondly together is untouched, unchanged. Whatever we were to each other, that we still are. Call me by the old familiar name. Speak of me in the easy way which you always used. Put no difference into your tone. Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we aways laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me;Let my name be a household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without an effort, without the ghost of a shadow upon it. Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was. The absolute and unbroken continuity. What is this death but a negligible accident? Why should I be out of mind because I'm out of sight. I'am waiting for you, for an interval. Somewhere very near just round the corner. All is well."
Obituary Mr Anthony Tryone "BIRD" Stancil-White Son Of Barbara Stancil-White and Edward White, was born on February 10, 1972 in Pitt County, NC. He departed this earthly life on February 19, 2005 in a car accident coming home from Va. Beach only a few miles from home. He spent most of his life in Pitt County. He had lived in Va. Beach for a short time. He graduated from J.H. Rose High School in 1990. He did not participate in any sports because of his heart valve problems. On July 30, 1992 he entered into the U. S. Navy. His military career was brief due to a heart valve disorder. He worked in various jobs but always returned home to the family business, Edwards Commercial Vinyl of Greenville, NC were he was employed.
A few months ago, it was as if he knew God was going to call him home soon; therefore he was getting his life in order. He was doing things out of the norm. He would call family members just to tell them he loved them, the only person he would call everyday to tell her he loved her was his mom. He was "paying his mom some money'(this was just a joke between the two of them) he owed her". He had returned items borrowed such as a belt he had borrowed from his mom. In fact he returned it the day before his death. He would tell his mom, "Time is getting shorter and shorter; it scares me that so many young people are leaving this world so fast, especially my friends. It is time to get right. I want to do the right things for God. I'am repenting of my sins"
Tyrone as he was affectionately called, had the most handsome smile anyone could have, and he greeted everyone with that wonderful smile.
Tryone was preceded in death by his Grandfather, Willie J. Stancil, two uncles Eddie and William Stancil. He was love by everyone who knew him and will be missed by all.
Tyrone leaves to cherish his memories: Mother & Father Barbara and Edward White of the home, Sisters: Minnie White of Danbury, CT, Shonda White of Danbury, Ct Kim White of Laura, MD Brothers: Edward White, Jr of Waterbury, Ct, Maternal Grandmother: Thedell Stancil, Paternal Grandmother: Doris White of Brooklyn, NY Greatgrandmother: Mandy Chapman of Greenville, NC. Aunts: Gloria(Micheal) Wilson of Greenville,NC Vera Stancil of Greenville, NC Brenda Speight of Greenville, NC Toni White Johnson of Newark, NJ Uncles: David Stancil of Greenville, NC William,Gerald,Randy,Warren,Kenneth,Cleveland,WIllielRafarel,Mark And Micheal White all of New York Great Aunts: Mae Allison, of Greenville, NC,Annie Hunt,of Greenville, NC,Essie Stancil of Robersonville, NC Mattie Crandell of Robersonville, NC Lena Stancil, of Robersonville, NC Geraldine Chapman of Baltimore, MD, Great Uncles Alton Chapman, of Baltimore, MD John Stancil of Tarboro, NC Joe Hunt of Greenville, NC God Parents William & Carrie Norfleet of Greenville, NCSpecial Friend Shellena Whitfield of Lagrange, NC Others Host of relatives and friends Anthony was loved by everyone who knew him, and he will be truely missed by those who knew and loved him. Pall Bearers Classmates and friends: Nicheal Hollis, Rodney Clark, Samuel Harrington, Ronald Willims, Anthony Prayer, Jimmy Saunders Florals Bearers: Ushers & Friends Acknowledgement: We wish to espress our appreciation for all acts of kindness and sympathy extended to us during the time of our bereavement. Your prayers, kind thoughts and good deds have helped to sustain us at this time. May God richly bless each of you.
To The Stancil & White Family During this sorrowful time, our service were rendered with heartfelt compassion. Our overall commitment was to ensure that fond memories of your loved one will be with you today and beyond. You entrusted us to serve you during this period of bereavement, but it is hoped that this time is the start of a relationship that will endure. We are always here for you. Thank You The Phillips Brothers & Anderson Mortuary Staff Services Entrusted To: Phillips Brothers & Anderson Mortuary 1501 W Fourteenth St. Greenville, NC 27834
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Anthony Tyrone know as "Bird" was born on a Thursday morning at 7:18 am 1972 to Barbara Stancil & Wilbert Wilkes whom is now also deceased. She later met a wonderful man who truely became Bird's father when Bird was only 21/2 years old and He adopted Him as His blood Son. He couldn't have loved Him more and the same was for Bird.
Momie loves you so very much the 19th will never leave me. 
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